Sunday, 26 April 2015

How to: Self Esteem!

Self esteem is something that I think at least everybody lacks at one point in their lives. For me, the key thing is not to let others define your self worth. Rejection is something that we will have to face at numerous points in our lives, be it prospective partners or university places. It is important that we don't let such rejection define who we are.

Failing to engage in a romantic relationship does define how desirable you are and failing to secure a particular job does not define your ability to be successful. Learn to love yourself for your unique qualities, and for what you as a person can bring to the table. Don't feel bad about loving yourself either because it's a great place to be. 

There's no shame in admitting that you look hot in that selfie or treating yourself to something nice that you want. Valuing yourself and valuing others are intrinsically linked so having the ability to truly appreciate yourself leads to you being more kind and positive in your dealings with others.

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